Go from discouraged with dating to finding your person

A 90-day live program designed for a selected cohort of ambitious women to rediscover the joy and purpose in dating and drastically increasing the chances of finding ā€œthe oneā€.

Request your spot, cohort starts Jan 15

Is dating starting to feel like another job?

Dating shouldn't feel like a choice between forced chemistry or convincing yourself itā€™s easier to stay single. Letā€™s change this!

No time & energy for dating

Exhausted of dating apps

Stuck in the same patterns

Feeling alone

Hi, I am Valerie

Iā€™ve been exactly where you are. After my divorce, I felt overwhelmed by dating and unsure where to start (yet again!).

That's why I transformed my search for love into a fun, structured challenge built on my years of project management expertise.

After finding my perfect match Ed (date #12 during the very first 30 Dates Challenge) through this method, I spent two years refining this approach by guiding others to similar success.

Now, I'm offering the 30 Dates in 30 Days challenge exclusively to 10 women who are ready to transform their dating lives just like I and many others have.

Donā€™t take my word for it. Listen to stories from women like you!

Itā€™s working!

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Nikki

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Sinmi

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Andy

Highlights from my
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Are you ready for a new approach to dating? 

30 Dates in 30 Days isnā€™t just datingā€”itā€™s a new way to put intentional effort into dating and break old pattens

Stage 1: Preparation
Days 1-30

Get started: Intro to the program and meet your cohort.

Mindset & goals: Set your mindset and define success.

Dating strategy: Learn how to find and approach dates.

Track progress: Tools to stay on track.

Get ready: Warm-up challenges for your first date.

Stage 2: Execution
Days 31-60

Go on dates: Experience up to 30 dates.

Personalized challenges: Complete fun, custom challenges.

Push boundaries: Take stretch dates for growth.

Stay motivated: Extra support in WhatsApp group.

Track & share: Celebrate progress and wins.

Stage 3: Debrief
Days 61-90

Review journey: Reflect and celebrate your results.

Key learnings: Discover what you learned.

Celebrate success: Share your wins with the group.

Next steps: Plan your future dating journey.

Ongoing support: Stay connected for continued motivation.

Exclusive 90-day cohort-based Program

Experience personalized support within a close-knit group of 10 like-minded women per cohort.

ā€œDating project managementā€ Tools

Tools to organize your dates, set goals, and monitor your progress with ease just like you do for projects.

Like-minded supportive community

Together, we'll cheer each other on, make dating fun and empowering. Enjoyably discovering love.

Personalized 1:1 chat & email support

You are never alone on your journey. Stay connected with me through email and WhatsApp.

Structured, engaging & personalised

Engaging videos, interactive exercises, and personalized challenges to navigate the dating world confidently.

Bi-weekly zoom calls with your cohort

Sharing stories, gaining new perspectives, and celebrating milestones together.

Book a consultation and letā€™s
discuss how can I help you

30 Dates in 30 Days is for YOU , if ...

You want a structured approach

Approach dating with the precision and planning of a successful project. My proven methods ensure your journey is both effective and enjoyable.

You seek personal growth

Overcome limiting beliefs and use dating as a path to self-improvement. Discover what you truly want in a partner and what patterns might not be serving you..

You value new experiences

Move beyond swiping apps with personalized challenges. Focus on meaningful interactions and exciting opportunities to meet Your Person.

You need a clear action plan

Follow a well-defined roadmap that fits seamlessly into your busy life. Make dating manageable, fun, and a priority without feeling overwhelmed.

You like being in a supportive community

Join a network of like-minded women who support and cheer each other on. Make the dating process empowering and enjoyable with a strong support.

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Joining is risk-free!

Iā€™m confident youā€™ll love the 30 Dates in 30 Days program.

I ensure you get waaay more value than you invest, but If after the first 2 weeks, you think otherwise, I will happily refund you in full.

Simply email me with proof that youā€™ve completed the exercises for weeks 1 and 2 and attended your first virtual live session.

You definitely wonā€™t want to. But know that you can. šŸ˜

Read full details here.

Book a free consultation and discover how 30 Dates in 30 Days can change your dating life!

Step 1: Book Your call ā†’ Step 2: Get your free consultation ā†’ Step 3: Enroll in next cohort

Expect tangible results

Dating skills

Break old patterns and apply practical tools inspired by project management to confidently navigate dating.

Set clear goals, manage expectations, and track your progress for a more intentional approach.

Higher chances of meeting ā€œthe oneā€

The structure of this program is aimed at increasing your chances of igniting that special connection.

This proactive approach ensures that each date brings you closer to a fulfilling and significant relationship

Memorable experiences

Embrace the spontaneity of the dating, fostering connections that may not necessarily lead to a life partner (but could!), and in any case promise meaningful moments, shared adventures, and a richer tapestry of experiences in your personal journey

Personal growth

Gain a significant boost in self-confidence as you navigate and successfully complete a series of 30 dates in 30 days. Develop a resilient and positive mindset, empowering you to approach dating - and beyond! - with newfound assurance and authenticity.

Questions? Answers.

  • Itā€™s a cohort-based program, limited to 10 spots per cohort.

    The program itself offers a mix of self-paced e-learnings with theory, homeworks, reflection exercises and challenges to actually make it work for you.

    All of this is supplemented it with live calls every 1-2 weeks and 1:1 support.

  • You are right, each cohort is 90 days.

    30 days preparation phase + 30 days of actual dating + 30 days reflection and next steps

  • The last day to join is the 15th of January, 2025. If you sign-up later, we will give you a spot in the next cohort.

  • The live calls are typically on Tue, Wed or Thu evening every 1-2 weeks during the 90-day program. Each call is recorded, in case you canā€™t make.

    We use Zoom for these calls.

  • All calls will be recorded, so that you can watch them at your own time

  • Great question! We want to make sure dating is your top priority during these 90 days. Here's a breakdown of the time commitment:

    30 Days Preparation:

    • eLearning: 2 hours/week

    • Challenges/Applications: 2 hours/week

    • Live Zoom Calls: 3 sessions, 1.5 hours each

    • Date Planning: Time to line up your dates
      Total: ~5 hours/week + time for dates

    30 Days of Dating:

    • eLearning: 1 hour/week

    • Reflections: 2 hours/week

    • Live Zoom Calls: 2 sessions, 1.5 hours each

    • Dates: Time to line up and go on dates
      Total: ~3.5 hours/week + time for dates

    30 Days Reflection:

    • eLearning: 1 hour/week

    • Application/Reflections: 2 hours/week

    • Live Zoom Calls: 2 sessions, 1.5 hours each
      Total: ~3.5 hours/week

    This schedule is designed to keep you engaged without overwhelming you, while ensuring you stay on track for success!

  • We will open the program to mixed-gender cohorts in the future. Given that this program grew from being an offline program for women to now being online, we want to ensure we continue to deliver what we know best for now. We of course value all genders and orientations, so stay tuned for new programs and cohorts in the future :)

  • I wish we could!

  • Yes, participants are being selected.

    Itā€™s not a huge application process, but we only have 10 spots per cohort and want to make sure that we select participants who can put in the time and effort needed.

    If you have struggled in the past and have some negative beliefs about dating or yourself in relations to dating, thatā€™s totally ok. We all have those and the program will surface and address them.

    But we still need women who have some optimism in them that it'll work out. What we don't want to happen for example is that our live calls turn into venting sessions. We all love a good war story, but we'd want you to leave these calls and feel good. Feel that you are not alone, that youā€™ve learned something and that you feel good about this entire process.

    Thatā€™s why we take the time to talk to all potential participants and make sure that itā€™s a good fit.

    We want to deliver what you need and don't want to waste 90 days and your money. That's why it should be a fit from both sides. Just like in dating :)

    We want you to feel good with having us as your partner by your side, so please use the free initial consultation to ask us anything on your mind, too.

  • The program is very much based on a project management approach. The goal is to approach dating like a really well -run project.

    We will have a kick -off, we will talk about what does success look like, we will align on metrics, what are we measuring, how do we know whether we're doing well and how do we know that we're not doing well and hence might need to steer in the right direction.

    We'll have a check -in and we will at the end of the project look back and really reflect as to what have we learned.

  • Right after your enrolment, we will send you a link to the eLearning platform.

  • You will have access from the day you sign-up until 90 days after the end of ā€œyourā€ cohort. If you sign up the exact day the cohort starts, you hence have 90 days for the program + another 90 days after the end of the cohort = 180 days

  • Yes! If after the first 2 weeks, you arenā€™t receiving the value you were hoping for, I will happily refund you in full.

    For more details, please read the terms linked under ā€œMoney Back Guaranteeā€

  • Book a free consultation here to discuss the program in detail and clarify any question you might have. It itā€™s a fit for you, weā€™ll sign you up for one of the next cohorts!

Hereā€™s what other participants have asked:

Prefer digesting info via audio but still have questions? I recorded these just for you.

Q1:
What exactly is
30 Dates in 30 Days?

Q2:
How long is the
program?

Q3:
What tools will we
be using?

Q4:
How much time do
I need for the program?

Q5:
Can you guarantee that Iā€™ll find ā€œmy personā€?

Q6:
Are participants selected or can everyone join?

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Iā€™m looking forward to getting to know you!